Opposites

On Friday...
One dear friend was saying good bye to her sweet baby boy, Maxwell, stillborn at 38 weeks.  We gathered as friends, co-workers, family, and loved ones with her and her husband to say goodbye for a life taken way too early and to grieve with/for parents who were given such a short time with sweet Maxwell.

Meanwhile in another state in a very different situation...

Another dear friend was giving birth to her first baby.  A son, named Logan, who is healthy by all accounts.  Healthy and beautiful (boys can be called "beautiful" for at least a couple weeks!).  He is loved just as much as Maxwell, by his parents, family and friends.  But Logan has been given the opportunity to have a long healthy life, something Maxwell is stripped of. 

It's so hard to be left with so many questions and way too few answers.  Why do some babies die?  Why do others live?  One might think that after my 4 miscarriages I might have more answers -- but it's the opposite.  I'm left with more questions.  And doing lots of praying.  Praying for Maxwell's parents.  Thankful prayers for Logan's safe delivery. 

Charlotte - 7 months

Dear Charlotte,
You are 7 months old, actually 7 1/2 months, and I forgot to take your 7 months picture.  So this letter will have to do for the month.
You are such a blessing.  You are a very happy, content little girl.  You're smiley nearly the entire day, except when you're tired, then you're just kinda sober. 
You are deeply loved by your mommy, brother (who won't leave you alone!), and daddy (who says girls are more fun than boys!).  You are doted on all day long.
You still wake at least once through the night, but you take decent naps through the day.
You still breast feed all day long.  But we did add one 4oz bottle of formula at 7pm.  I hoped it would help you sleep better, but it has helped us not breast feed every hour between 5-9!  that has been nice for mommy!
You wake in the morning so happy and chatty.  You like to play for a while before you eat. 
At 7 months you:

• sit up unassisted
• hold toys, bang them up and down, throw them
• talk (baba, dada, mama (only when you're mad!)
• love to be on your tummy
• roll all the time
• pull knees up under your belly and thrust yourself forward.  very dangerous!  we all rush around moving Asa's toys out of the way!  Mommy is trying to figure out how to baby-proof with your brother's toys strewn around the house.  Asa is learning what "choking hazard" means.
• a little leery of strangers, look to momma for reassurance
• eating solids - you hated purees so we went right to finger foods (cheerios, carrots, peas, puffs, wagon wheels, baby mumm mumm)  You love them all.  Not much luck with fruits yet.
• you are great at the chewing motion.  Mommy was skeptical about "baby-led weaning" but it really works for you :)
• reach/watch everyone eating their food
• you enjoy sitting in the "big-girl" high chair at restaurants and Nonny/Poppy's house
• you've enjoyed swinging on the swings
• you love being outside and watching Asa play or just enjoy the wind through your hair :)
• we did move you to your next car seat, but with all the car switches in the last 2 weeks, you've been back and forth between seats.  

sunday am

My sweet baby Charlotte is 4 weeks today.  My heart aches as she is growing so fast and yet I yearn with anticipation for the "witching hour" to be out-grown.  This has been a rough week at times.  The evenings are difficult to predict, some nights she is content and sleeps the evening away - only then she is wide awake from 2am-5am.  Oh my heavens, was that a rough night!  Then other evenings she is attention seeking the entire evening and eating nearly every 90 minutes - but then she sleeps better through the night. 
This will be a busy baking week.  My family is doing our traditional almond tart (think banquette into a small tart) baking today.  We adore those little almond delights so much that the whole family gets into the assembly line to help out.   
Then Tuesday and Wednesday bring more baking with friends and family for giving away.  I'm looking forward to all of it, and praying Charlotte is content while I'm baking so I can actually contribute to the end product rather than just holding and feeding Charlotte.
Charlotte has her 1 month appt this week.  The school staff Christmas party is this week, I'm hoping to attend.  Then Friday, I'm going to my class's Christmas party.  It will be my first time away from Charlotte, at least more than 20 minutes.  Which means she needs to practice drinking from a bottle this week! I'm praying she easily accepts the bottle!

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I fell in love with their photo books soon after we had Asa.  We made a "Year 1" book of Asa for the grandparents for Christmas.  They LOVED it.  They carried it around for months to show it off :) 
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Hi!

So this will be my new spot to vent.  Having a very busy 3 year old boy, a newborn baby girl, and going back to teaching in a couple weeks - why, yes, I am very overwhelmed!!  I'm hoping the baby does well with daycare, but first I need to see if she will take bottle... yikes.  Asa is a being a great big brother, although I'm noticing a little resentment when he wants me to help him with something, but I'm feeding the baby and can't help!  Stay tuned!